IU (아이유) – Bbi Bbi (삐삐)(Full English Misheard Lyrics)

Hello, dear readers! It will be our first time featuring another soloist – Lee Ji Eun, also known as IU, with her latest song Bbi Bbi.

Just to give a little background, IU’s latest song, Bbi Bbi, is her answer to those who spread rumors about her. It can be remembered that some people wanted to investigate her properties, and even called the attention of the Blue House – none other than the Korean President himself – to do it for them.

Considering the misheard lyrics below, the alternate title for this song is “I Peep, Stop It!”. It could be interpreted like this: IU peeps in social media for some negative comments and gossips about her, and tells them to stop it.

Lyrics posted in the video are underlined here.

You may play this video while reading the following contents. Enjoy the misheard lyrics of “Bbi Bbi” (삐삐)(IU/아이유) from TweetNewscaster!


How dare he sigh or talk a bash!
She joked a salty moss
Itchy when? PSY, I milk. Hey you, back up, back off
He tell Roger, “Why you balance, balance?”

It’s me. Now, yell. Tell Nikka, ash
Or show me monk. I own my closet
Come, seek a known coup. Hit scanner, scanner
Oh no, rain may tell me, “Buy you, jealous jealous”

Cannot meet a Western run. I’ll say, “Show one now!”
Keep a good list only, if you show them modem
Take a Dara thing. None, a lot stressed. They moan in car
Cotton, you shot sham

Y’all who see a hard D!
Me, some number Nancy bump. Hey, I peep
May roar and you pick out. She is ma-ma-ma-mine.
Hey, you skip the la-la-la-line

Hello, stupid hard D!
Cause I’m no more young, John. So hey, I peep. Stop it!
Car in your seat. He, cause we don’t no-no-no-know
Come, I wait and oh wo-wo-wow
Imma fan a thing

I don’t care. Touch now, we feel you much.
Sham who die. Sad so much
Jam, show me PSY. A milk? Hey, you! Not my business.
Eat a Roger, IU! Talk, talk less…

Still me. Die on oil like an ash. (Hmm!)
I’ll try. You gonna say, “My gosh!”
Pop a Jane. I know bit. Track tracking
Merry, feelin goodie talkin’ or hash tracking

Who call track, and doll car?
Pick her, no more gel
Our duck is so cool. Dare on cool
Chuck in now. No more lull
You was buying bank, and all who lane gonna
Moon try on chop John!

Y’all who see a hard D!
Me, some number Nancy bump. Hey, I peep
May roar in your pick or she is ma-ma-ma-mine.
Gay, you skip the la-la-la-line

Hello, stupid hard D!
Cause I’m no more young, John. So hey, I peep. Stop it!
Car in your seat. Heck, cause we don’t no-no-no-know
Come, I wait and oh wo-wo-wow
Imma think…

Can all care your Jim or I’ll go? He know.
More a a Dura, ah. I love it!
Hey, I see more a car. Me, more show law.
Donna wanna fall. Oh oh! We love it!

Come, bun take our Q.
I cake up so knock, knock, knock, knock, nuff
Toss in day on the black, black, bluff, bluff
The more he cause a yawn, he saw Shawn
Wow, oh babe
Repeat, repeat, some troop she write!

Y’all who see a hard D!
Me, some number. You see bump? Hey, I peep (Beep beep!)
May roar and you pick out. She is ma-ma-ma-mine.
Hey, you skip the la-la-la-line

Hello, stupid hard D!
Cause I’m no more young, John. So hey, I peep.(Beep beep) Stop it!
Car in your seat. Heck, cause we don’t no-no-no-know
Come, I wait and oh wo-wo-wow
Imma fan a thing!

Red Velvet (레드벨벳) – Power Up (파워업)(Full English Misheard Lyrics)

For another misheard lyric in full English, we are now presenting again Red Velvet, with their song “Power Up”.

This is for benefit of K-Pop fans and others who only understand English. Hope y’all will appreciate this.

Considering the misheard lyrics below, the alternate title for this song is “Banana”. Obviously. They will plug a pineapple and sing “Banana,” instead of saying “Pa-pineapple, pa pa pineapple-apple…” Spongebob would get angry at them, or cry as he was told a lie for so long. 🙂

Lyrics posted in the video are underlined here.

You may play this video while reading the following contents. Enjoy the misheard lyrics of “Power Up” (파워업) (Red Velvet/레드벨벳) from TweetNewscaster!


Ba banana ba ba banana na na ba
Banana ba ba banana na na ba
Banana ba ba banana na na ba
Banana ba ba banana na na

Oh, Annie got to one. A moon to where?
She, Karen bets a sashy eyes
America, no. My shadow, where?
Talk cool, could hackin!

Guy, Anne no more in holy. Go!
I’ll seek at Domo. Who? She bone! Wow!
Want a Owen, Nadine?
Talk Conan. Ah, yeah. Make-up, eh?

Some more magic!
Pan suck in good ocean
We do not pass on our car
Aah!

Go go airplane. Bank in two Rome. Na na da
How I fab or soak? Now, we don’t chop on Ricky
Yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah!
Let’s power up!
You knock it. I don’t know. Rake IU!

Ba banana ba ba banana na na ba
Banana ba ba banana na na ba
Banana ba ba banana na na ba
Let’s power up! Like I’ll change, Santa. Rake IU!

Ooh! Show one hot and cool one head, IU!
I want it. I want it, want it, want it. Yeah!
Me, could hear you Joe. Me, powder Joe
I take it. I take it, take it, take it. Yeah!

Good again, holy yeah!
John, this show deed. How I yawn?
Chicken shop who lean joke,
Nudge a quote. I feel you, hey!
To Nayeon who lift up,
Sorry. Damn, it’s us whole hour. Huh?
Wreck her love. (Huh?)

I’m Jin. Sorry!
Turtle mommy, background music
Carpool song, Anna!

Go go airplane! Care you, we don’t na na da
Diving to the sky, one to soar. I boot a zone
Yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah!
Let’s power up! You knock it. I don’t know. Rake IU!

Go go airplane. Bank in two Rome. Na na da
How I fab or soak? Now, we don’t chop on Ricky
Yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah!
Let’s power up!
You knock it. I don’t know. Rake IU!

Ba banana ba ba banana na na ba
Banana ba ba banana na na ba
Banana ba ba banana na na ba
Let’s power up! Like I’ll change, Santa. Make IU!

Some singing I’ll make. He was so much a joke
No Ted or era took a shit. Hockey? Hey!
Go, run now your darling. Bad luck or rich Joe?
Seek I own, though say Kai own dough, it’s mine!

Go go airplane. Bank in two Rome. Na na da
How I fab or soak? Now, we don’t chop on Ricky
Yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah!
Let’s power up!
You knock it. I don’t know. Make IU

Go go airplane! Care you, we don’t na na da
Diving to the sky, one to soar. I boot us on (Yeah yeah yeah yeah)
Yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah yeah!
Let’s power up!
You knock it Domo. Rake IU!

Ba banana ba ba banana na na ba
Banana ba ba banana na na ba
Banana ba ba banana na na ba
Let’s power up! Like I’ll change, Santa. Rake IU!

TWICE (트와이스) – YES or YES (Full English Misheard Lyrics)

Good day, readers! As promised on our YouTube page, we are now featuring the misheard lyrics of TWICE’s YES or YES in full English. This is for benefit of K-Pop fans and others who only understand English. I hope that many fans, especially those who know English, will appreciate this.

Considering the misheard lyrics below, the alternate title for this song is “Told You, Gay”. Just see for it later.

Lyrics posted in the video are underlined here.

You may play this video while reading the following contents. Enjoy the misheard lyrics of “YES or YES” (TWICE/트와이스) from TweetNewscaster!


Hey, boy!
Look!
I’m gonna make this simple for you.
You got two choices:
Yes or Yes?

Hooh…
Told you, gay, I know man.
Call her? Yes or Yes?
Hooh…
On the mass soon to kiss, so Yes or Yes?

Me goin’ all care? Oh, we cater gay? Yeah, banker
My Kai, look! Cake on zipper.
Joke is Sana (Sana)
Two molar (Two molar)
Nip on bun, honey
Come on and tell me, yes!

Say, “Phone on quarter match his nose in Harry, yeah!”
It’s a man. Poodle, Nae-nae one pure care.
My joking (My joke here)
I don’t care (I don’t care)
Nick humor it too, ooh ooh. Hooh!
You better tell me, yes!

May man phone too? It’s a yes!
Good luck. Hey, JooE, dead honey to rate a rain
He demand boogie. It’s okay!
My boogie gay Monday
Go, rain a gay, though two war get joking!

My Gore on same hole, I join. Me? Hey, buzzer!
Told you gay, I know man. Call her? Yes or Yes?
Me, might who maim all I join. Me? Hey, bus stop!
On the mass, soon to kiss, so Yes or Yes?

Kate, I know. Cheer up! My honey now who win
Some take a June June, hey! Good jar in cotton here
Some bet Shane on Hannah
Some zoom cake on the man
It’s all up to you
Who joke? Hey, I know man. Call her? Yes or Yes?

See, she make up (Do not test). Teachy many (Do not ex)
Am I ninja? Oh my God! Push her way, we are hero!
There’s no day. There’s N and oh! Chop ballet. Let who laid boodle
Put your packy. Come, Mina video on such ankle. Twin yeah seize you!

Auto make it seem put Jungkook. I know, Nayeon know bar
Know Hannah who guess seemin’ manners so…
Pa, who lump (who lump) taco now (go now)
My heart pull Bboom Bboom
You better hurry up!

To call chicken, my hat John gone
Mommy, ball. I don’t maim Anna. You take Goya!
Much emo now, who kid head or
Or cheer a cool head or
Should go, roam it. Gee, I get joking!

My Gore on same hole, I join. Me? Hey, buzzer!
Told you gay, I know man. Call her? Yes or Yes?
Me, might who maim all I join. Me? Hey, bus stop!
On the mass, soon to kiss, so Yes or Yes?

Kate, I know. Cheer up! My honey now who win
Some take a June June, hey! Good jar in cotton here
Some bet Shane on Hannah
Some zoom cake on the man
Now he’s all up, Tzuyu!

Maybe now no no (No no)
Maybe a yes (No no)
Two thousand yawn
I can hear my moon

Hey! Care boy who bar
Cake here, you’re too far
Buses or a car
Troll, is she Annie?
It’s simple: Y-E-S. Hey!

Told you gay, I know man
Call her? Yes or Yes?
On the mass, soon to kiss, so Yes or Yes? (Hooh!)
On the Ddu-Ddu, kiss or Yes or Yes or Yes?
Cool a butter. Soon, take on the man!

My Gore on same hole, I join. Me? Hey, buzzer!
Told you gay, I know man. Call her? Yes or Yes?
Me, might who maim all I join. Me? Hey, bus stop!
On the mass, soon to kiss, so Yes or Yes?

Kate, I know. Cheer up! My honey now who win
Some take a June June, hey! Good jar in cotton here
Some bet Shane on Hannah
Some zoom cake on the man
It’s all up to you

On the mass, soon to kiss, so Yes or Yes?

SATURDAY (세러데이) – WiFi (와이파이): MV Review

We will feature first time another girl group called SATURDAY (세러데이), with their song Wi-Fi (와이파이) as their second lead music. By the looks of it, their group was created last year, on July 18, 2018.

I made a review of it, as I see that the music video is so beautiful, and that it is freshly-baked. You may watch first their video here:

Storyline

  1. Video must have a storyline – 5 points

They made their storyline simple and clear. The video starts by featuring a Wi-Fi hub, and then shows various technologies from the past to present. Its storyline revolves around the girl/s who want to connect with the boy she loved, as compared to a Wi-Fi, but can’t connect due to mismatch. Worse, she gets disconnected with the boy.

  1. Theme must be consistent and clear – 4 points

The theme they are portraying is consistent enough. However, one point they missed is that they did not feature themselves connecting with smartphones and laptops. This would add to the consistency needed in the video.

Appearance

  1. The music video as a whole must be colorful – 5 points

The video was colorful enough to excite the listeners and set their mood.

  1. Must be done in good taste – 5 points

I did not see anything awkward or gross in this video.

  1. Does not celebrate Halloween, Easter, or similar celebrations – 5 points

No celebrations mentioned were shown here.

  1. Does not feature astrology – 5 points

No traces of astrology is featured here.

  1. Less horror is featured in the video – 5 points

The video was not too scary. In fact it was exciting.

  1. Not too revealing outfits – 5 points

No outfits revealing unnecessary parts were seen in the video.

Music

  1. Ability of the music to excite the listener – 5 points

I must admit that the music is soooo exciting. It makes me want to hear it till the end, and repeat it so many times. This deserves a perfect score.

  1. Music should not be deafening on the ears – 5 points

The song “Wi-Fi” does not irritate the ears even if it is played too loud.

Dance

  1. Dance can be learned easily even by beginners – 5 points

By the looks of the video, the steps they made can be easily learned by beginners. Also, the chorus just amounts to a fusion of aegyo (like Gwiyomi) and that of a normal dance.

Added factor to the dance is that it is simple yet energetic.

  1. Dance must not be too sensual – 5 points

I did not see any sensual dance in the video. Though SATURDAY has some sexy dances (especially at 1:34 – 1:35), they nevertheless did not play it too far.

Lessons

  1. Moral lesson must be clearly stated – 5 points

Primarily, the moral lesson that can be obtained from the video is on how we communicate with others. It can be seen throughout the whole video, with the girls trying to connect and talk with the man. If that fails, mismatch will happen. And worse, without proper means to communicate, misunderstandings will prevail.

  1. They must impart something beneficial for their viewers – 5 points

Viewers could learn a bit of history from SATURDAY.

The group features past and present technologies available for communication, like the old-fashioned telephone, router, antenna (for TV), and refrigerator (in case of smart freezers). What one would not notice is that they featured cookies below their debut date “July 18, 2018” (at 2:58), which represents cookies embedded in websites.

Added to that is their feature of fruits like bananas and lemons, which will somehow let viewers appreciate eating fruits.

Other Matters

  1. Inject sense of humor in the music video – 6 points

The sense of humor portrayed in the video refers to emotions they play upon losing contact. Another funny aspect is on Chohee holding a gun releasing “Free Wi-Fi” cards (2:00 – 2:05), taunting Ayeon who stands. Losing contact (or having unstable signals) in Wi-Fi is the reality in the Philippines.

Another funny thing I noticed is that Haneul kicked the slot machine due to mismatch. Instead of showing three equal pictures, a date is featured, at 2:44 – 2:55. I find it funny how the girl reacted.

  1. Ability of the song to make it to mainstream media – 4 points

This would be possibly picked by mainstream media. The hype factor present in the song will be their advantage, but this will not be quite as popular.

  1. Review by other sites – 4 points

Here are some comments by netizens:

Just feel it, Bboom Bboom!

The leader of this group (Chohee) was born on 2002, same as my age but all I do is reading fanpics, eat, and sleep. I should feel bad for myself.

This reminds me of Momoland

Lots of songs sound the same. Get over it.

This is so catchy, please support them. They’re Saturday, not Momoland.

At least MMLD influenced another gg. More power, SATURDAY! Those who were disliking this doesn’t deserve a Wi-Fi connection.

The song has been stuck in my head the last four days.

And this did not really surprise me at all:

Saturday: WiFi

TWICE: Signal

Like most of netizens, Obsessed and Assessed noticed the similarities of the song with Momoland’s Bboom Bboom. And that is not surprising, as I also see the similarities. The blogger pointed out that the dance lacks excitement, and that the scene features small spaces, as if SATURDAY would be in a sardine can. Nevertheless, the blogger also finds the MV a cute one.

The Bias List tells that the first seconds of the video was “copied” from Hwasa’s solo music TWIT. And it noticed that the group also shares similarities with Momoland’s music.

  1. Review of the music video as a whole – 5 points

Although not too energetic on dance steps, I find this music video very colorful and exciting. So far, this is the cutest music video after that of Bboom Bboom. Most members do an aegyo, and if they will attract me through this MV, I would be easily enchanted by their looks.

  1. Other factors
  • Intro tune shares similarities with Bboom Bboom – 5 points

If you have heard already the hit song from Momoland, they both share similar guitary tune on the first seven seconds. It also shares the jazz tune from the same group in the next seven seconds.

  • Featuring fruits – 5 points

This will give added beauty in the video. In this case, SATURDAY showed other fruits that Red Velvet did not feature, seen at 0:27 – 0:43. These are lemons, cherries, and bananas.

You might recall RV’s music video of Power Up, where they sang “Banana” even without featuring a single banana on their video.

(Side note: I wonder if RV will do the same to Spongebob’s house, and one will sing “Who lives in the banana under the sea?”)

  • Shares the hallway concept with ASTRO – 5 points

The hallway at 0:44 – 0:59 where Sion dances shares same concept with ASTRO’s Always You, at 3:26 – 3:28.

  • Cute dance – 5 points

I have to consider this factor as they performed it in a very cute manner. And yes, I find them very cute, especially Yuki.

  • Shares concept with TWICE – 5 points

This refers to the song Signal by TWICE, wherein the girls try to send a signal that they like the man, but they are in vain. Looks like it was the same concept used in creating the MV and song of “Wi-Fi”, though not totally copying the MV of Signal as a whole.

  • Uploads the video to 1theK – 5 points (updated)
  • Features the 1theK Logo – 0 points

SATURDAY is part of the 1theK group.

Sorry, but I have to rate it at zero points. SATURDAY should have featured the logo as a watermark (like SEVENTEEN’s Getting Closer). Or shown at end of the video (like AOA’s Bingle Bangle). This will somehow tell everybody that even they are from different entertainment agencies, they are still part of the team, and to cement their status as part of a bigger K-Pop community.

TweetNewscaster’s Overall Rating: 90.77% (Updated)

Final Words

It is just unfortunate that most netizens take the “imitating concepts” negatively, while in fact the group drew inspiration from various sources and turned this into a cute one.

It is given that the group was newly-created (as seen on their debut date). Their lead song “Wi-Fi”, though not their debut music, will be a good start for them.

SATURDAY should take cues from this review and other reviews, and make their presence known. There will be a time that they will have their own style. Hope this will guide them in their succeeding MVs.

 

ITZY (있지) – Dalla Dalla (달라달라): MV Review

Good day, readers! This year marked the rise of new groups from different entertainment companies. Among them is JYP Entertainment, who recently launched their new group, ITZY (있지). They debuted last February 12, with five members, namely Yuna, Lia, Ryujin, Chaeryeong, and Yeji.

And for the first time, we are going to review the debut music of the new group, Dalla Dalla. The song is also freshly-baked. Hope this review will be helpful for the group in their next projects. You may watch first their MV here before reading the review:

Storyline

  1. Video must have a storyline – 3 points

The storyline revolves on the girls who changed their outfits before going to the airport, with the aim of reaching at different destinations, including tunnels, buildings, flats, and a dog parlor.

I gave this rating, as the MV should have made the storyline clear enough even for those who don’t understand Korean. It does not matter how anyone would interpret it.

  1. Theme must be consistent and clear – 5 points

While their storyline lacks depth, they applied their theme consistently throughout the whole video. Especially on featuring what’s inside the airport. Actually, the theme revolves around the journey members are making.

Appearance

  1. The music video as a whole must be colorful – 5 points

I must say that their MV is the most colorful so far. This deserves an excellent score. And they nailed it perfectly: They used special effects to depict changing colors of flats, their room, and their dog, as seen on 1:09 – 1:25, 1:58 – 2:01, and 0:54 – 1:01, respectively.

  1. Must be done in good taste – 5 points

I did not see any part that will make me avoid looking on the video. Nothing awkward or gross is being featured there.

  1. Does not celebrate Halloween, Easter, or similar celebrations – 5 points

The MV has no celebrations as mentioned. They only celebrated their being free and their desire to dream high.

  1. Does not feature astrology – 5 points

No trace of astrology is featured in the video.

  1. Less horror is featured in the video – 5 points

I did not see any thing in the video featuring horror.

  1. Not too revealing outfits – 5 points

Though their shorts are short, that was quite decent enough.

Music

  1. Ability of the music to excite the listener – 5 points (Updated)

In fairness to the group, the music by its nature is exciting. However, that was not enough to push me to hear it till the end.

Sorry. I updated this score after several listens, and I can tell that this is sooo exciting.

  1. Music should not be deafening on the ears – 5 points

Even if it is played at a loudspeaker, the music does not irritate the listener. Nothing loud was heard in the whole music.

Dance

  1. Dance can be learned easily even by beginners – 5 points

Beginners can easily learn the dances ITZY is featuring in the video, especially on the chorus part.

  1. Dance must not be too sensual – 4 points

This lacks one point, as I have noticed something. I find it off Chaeryeong dancing at 1:44.

Lessons

  1. Moral lesson must be clearly stated – 5 points

They imparted the important lesson – to dream high and never stop reaching on our dreams, as heard on their lyrics. Them being on top of the car tells us viewers that we should always aim higher, or aim to be on top in everything we do.

Another lesson they taught us is to follow laws. Instead of arguing with and beating the airport security officers, they follow the standard airport protocols. They submit themselves for inspection.

Last lesson they taught us, albeit unconsciously, is on carrying their bags. These represent our willingness to bring everything – whether good or bad – everywhere we go. Every contents in the bag will be helpful for them, and us, to survive as we go on our journey.

  1. They must impart something beneficial for their viewers – 5 points

They made a good choice on featuring how to take care of animals, even by just cuddling them. This shows how we are ready to care for our pets. This is seen on 0:54 – 0:55 and at 2:02.

Other Matters

  1. Inject sense of humor in the music video – 5 points (updated)

Sorry. I did not see anything funny in the music video. That would be a great help to lift up the mood of listeners. They should have taken a cue on TWICE when they debuted in Like Ooh-Aah, as Sana tried to flex her muscles but failed.

Sorry again. Updated this, as I have overlooked another funny scene, where the girls are changing outfits inside the elevator. I find it funny also how they threw clothes upon sensing CCTVs. Where’s Dahyun, by the way?

  1. Ability of the song to make it to mainstream media – 4 points

Most likely, the mainstream media will pick it, given that the music is quite exciting enough, not to mention the hype given on the group and the music.

  1. Review by other sites – 3 points

Here are some comments by netizens:

I don’t like this debut song. The song was not catchy

ITZY got everyone confused! Their vibe reminds us of every Kpop girlgroup mix all together

I better watch teaser than MV. I am so disappointed.

Doesn’t sound that good tbh. Sounds very generic as if they trying a bit hard to sound different.

I see them as Black Velvet concept

I don’t find them cringey. I think they are awesome and loveee the choreo…

I like their line distribution and vocal range

The views are because of people’s curiosity really. I don’t think it’s a strong debut

Maybe they’ll do release better songs next time.

Another one caught my attention:

At 1st listen: This song is meh

2nd listen: Hmm, not bad, I guess?

3rd listen: DALLA DALLA! I LOVE MYSELF!

The most compelling comment is this:

They reminded me of Crayon Pop at times. But the feeling I got wasn’t nostalgia. It was confusion.

1:09 when they start dancing will definitely remind you of bar bar bar. Their harmonization during the chorus, and the solo rap segments are broken up similarly…. 2:46, that part [of Crayon Pop] just cemented it for me.

Obsessed and Assessed viewed the group and their music as hyped up. The blogger added that he/she became skeptical on the teasers. It viewed the song as “impressively bad”, and that it was incoherent.

The reviewer had explained fully the reason why the dog changes colors, and why the airport is featured. It represents the individuality of each members, and that they have same dream: to reach the sky.

It finally ends with a note that it was one of the most disappointing debuts coming from one of the most famous entertainment companies.

AllKpop reviewed the song as pretty and playful. By describing how the song plays upon the MV and the members, it was indeed exciting and catchy. It tells that the difference between other girl groups would be on “energy and enthusiasm.”

The Bias List explains the fact that ITZY was created as another girl group to watch out for. It pointed out that the song was a mash-up of different genres from different K-Pop eras. However, it stressed the random structure of the song and the lack of final hit to make it more powerful.

  1. Review of the music video as a whole – 5 points

Overall, the music video as a whole has a beautiful concept. They had presented something different from their music video, though they combined concepts from other groups, as we will discuss later.

  1. Other factors
  • Comparison between ITZY and Dalla Dalla with that of TWICE – 3 points

If you will recall, TWICE’s debut music was Like Ooh-Aah. This served as energizer, and this was indeed exciting. Now, given that ITZY is also under JYP Ent., it cannot be avoided that they be compared with TWICE. It cannot also be avoided that some commenters will tell that TWICE has exciting moves and music, while the newbie lacks it (as of now)

  • Sharing dance steps with other group – 5 points

Their dance step at 2:28 – 2:30 closely resembles that of GFRIEND’s Sunrise (in 0:48 – 0:50).

  • Resemblance with other members – 5 points

At 1:41, Lia (?) looks like Jisoo of BLACKPINK

At 1:56, Yuna resembles Tzuyu of TWICE. And at 2:09, Ryujin resembles Sana of the same group.

  • Sharing concepts with previous MVs – 5 points

They copied some concepts from other groups. This is noticed on the last scene where they pose for a finale, and then elevator door is shut. It recalls the elevator used by PSY in his MV of Gangnam Style.

  • Shares similar melody – 5 points

The melody of the song shares that with TWICE’s Like Ooh-Aah (2:452:57), particularly at 2:46 – 3:00.

Also, at 0:23 – 0:38, the tune resembles that of Meghan Trainor‘s “Me Too” (0:05 – 0:21)

TweetNewscaster’s Overall Rating: 89.17% (Updated)

Final Words

Some points merit better rating, and I already revised this rating upward to reflect better my view on the group.

Given that they are being sold out as an alternative to TWICE (or other girl groups under JYP Ent.), they must prove that they can equal or surpass what the former group achieved. This is to not degrade them or compare them with another girl group, but for the newbies to learn more from them. Anyway, they will create their new sense of identity later on.

This review will somehow help ITZY get on track, and keep these considerations in mind. This is to guide them on the goal they want to achieve.

Love Advice No. 96

Isa ito sa mga bagay na gusto kong talakayin, dahil tila may mga nalilito kung dapat ba itong ipagmalaki ito o hindi. Bagaman hindi ito talaga sukatan ng pagmamahal ninyo sa isa’t isa, importante rin ito lalo na sa panahon ng social media. Sige, simulan na natin!

Isang tanong:

Dapat bang ipagmalaki ang relasyon ninyo sa social media?

My Answer:

Dalawa ang sagot ko diyan: Oo at Hindi.

Oo, dahil parang sinasabi mo sa maraming tao na siya ang mahal mo. Sapat na ang larawan o status update na ipinapakita na syota mo siya. Kung tutuusin, hindi na ito kailangan, pero maari mo itong gawin upang malaman ng lahat kung sino ang mahal mo.

Bakit? Mahirap kapag curious ang tao sa kung sino ang syota mo, pero ang nakalagay sa profile mo ay single ka. Pag sinabi mo na single ka, eh hindi naman, lalo na kung babae ka at maganda ka, hindi maiiwasan na ligawan ka. O kung lalaki ka, ligawan mo pag inilihim niya ang bagay sa iyo. Patay siya. Bugbog siya sa boyfriend mo. O sabunot sa girlfriend mo.

Kung sakaling magkaroon ng negatibong komento sa pic o sa status ninyo, hayaan niyo na lang.

Wala din namang masama kung ipopost ninyo ang moments na magkasama kayo. Lalo na kung ito ay tungkol sa public gathering, o kung kasama ninyo ang mga katropa o magulang ninyo. Lalo na rin kung ito ay isang bagay na gusto ninyong i-share sa lahat.

Pero hindi ibig sabihin nito ay minu-minuto kayong mag-uupdate sa social media. Magtira din ng pribadong sandali ninyo.

Isa pang tanong: Dapat bang hingin ang permiso niya bago ka mag-post sa social media? Siyempre. Dahil posibleng pagmumulan ito ng away niyo pag di mo ginawa iyan. Paano kung gustong isapribado lang niya ang moments mo? Tapos eh basta-basta mo ipinost sa social media nang wala kang permiso? Ang gulo, di ba?

Love Advice No. 95

Saw this on FTTM comment thread:

I have plenty of students na unknown ang tatay sa birth certificate, o kaya naman tatay lang ang kasama nila. Laging single parent. kaya awkward lagi pag diniscuss ang family tree, family day etc. Bakit ganito sa panahong ito? bakit di gaya ng dati na matibay ang samahan ng mag asawa? bakit ganun kadali manloko? maghiwalay? di gaya ng mga lolo at lola natin? Yung pangangatawanan ang “Kasama kang tumanda” at “Kahit maputi na ang buhok ko?”

Eto ang tunay na “marupok” hindi yung madali mainlove magka crush etc. Ang marupok ay yung sumumpa ng matibay na samahan pero sa isang iglap, sisirain na. Nawala na yung essence ng salawikain na “Ang pag-aasawa ay di mainit na kanin na kapag napaso ka ay iluluwa mo basta”

I always tell my bf of 10 years na ayokong magkaganun ang pamilya namin. We both came from a happy family with strong ties. Na gagawin namin ang best na namin na wag masira ang pamilyang pinaplano namin nang matagal whatever happens. We will never let our future children to have a broken family.

Bata ang nagsasuffer eh. Nakakatakot na baka makasanayan na ito at maging kultura na sa mga susunod na panahon.

Gagawa-gawa ng pamilya sabay sisirain.

Sana diyan sa mga gustong magjowa at may jowa na…

DATE NOT ONLY TO BRAG IT TO SOCIAL MEDIA, DATE NOT ONLY BECAUSE YOU WANT TO CHANGE YOUR FB RELATIONSHIP STATUS, DATE NOT ONLY BECAUSE OF ENVY, DATE NOT ONLY BECAUSE YOU JUST LIKE IT BUT DATE BECAUSE YOU WANT TO BUILD A HAPPY AND STRONG FAMILY IN THE FUTURE.. and I thank you.

Additional:

AT PARA SA PAMILYADO NA, PLEASE KUNG MAY DI PAGKAKAUNAWAAN, IDAAN SA TAMANG USAPAN, NA KONTING PROBLEMA, MAGHAHAMON AGAD NG HIWALAYAN. LISTEN AND UNDERSTAND BOTH PARTIES AT WALANG IBA PANG PARTIES. BE FAITHFUL! WAG NYONG KALIMUTAN ANG SINIMULAN NYO! HANGGA’T KAYA. THE MOMENT NA NILIGAWAN MO SI BABAE, THE MOMENT NA SINAGOT MO SI LALAKE, THE MOMENT NA NAGPLANO KAYO, NAGPRENUP, NAGPAKASAL, NAGTALO SA IPAPANGALAN SA ANAK! THE BUMPY ROADS YOU WALK THROUGH. THE VOW YOU TOOK SA HARAP NI FATHER O NG HUWES. THROUGH THICK AND THIN, TIL DEATH DO US PART. PLEASE. NEVER BE THE SAME AS THE ONE POSTED IN THIS THREAD And whoever the mother and kid sa post, I PRAY NA MABUO ULIT ANG PAMILYA NYO and I thank you ulit.

(ayan nakapanermon pa tuloy, wala po akong balak palitan si father ha😅)

My Answer:

Di na bale kung ganyang ka-harsh ang sermon mo, basta ipamukha sa kanila kung ano ang totoo. Bakit, di ba’t masakit tanggapin ang katotohanan?

Trending single parent

Bakit ba laging nauuso ang pagiging “single parent”?

Magmasid sa paligid. Pinakaimportante sa isang nagdadalaga o nagbibinata ang magabayan nang tama tungkol sa sekswalidad. Importante rin na maipaintindi kung ano ang magiging bunga kapag mali ang desisyon nila. Ngayon, kung hindi sila magabayan, o kung hindi nila mapigilan ang bugso ng damdamin, malaking gulo iyan. Pag nabuntis nang di-oras ang dalaga, most likely ay iiwanan siya ng lalaki dahil sa takot. O iiwasan ang responsiblidad na maging ama o ina.

Mapapansin niyo rin na tuwing nagbibigay ako ng love advice, lalo pag sex ang usapan, pinag-iingat ko ang mga babae. Tulad na lang sa Love Advice No. 20, na tatalakayin ko mamaya.

Aminin natin: Nakakarinig na tayo ng mga bata na ikinuwento ang sitwasyon na wala silang ama at/o ina. Kahit sa TV o sa kapitbahay natin. At ang nakakabahala, padami na ng padami ang mga batang kapos sa kalinga ng ama o ina. Nakakatakot din dahil pag ito ang nakasanayan na natin, darating ang panahon na masisira ang tunay na halaga ng pag-aasawa, o kahit na ng pagkakaroon ng jowa. Lalong masisira ang halaga ng isang pamilya.

Marupok

Sino ba ang talagang “marupok”? Gaya ng sinabi niya, hindi porke’t nagka-crush o jowa agad ay marupok na. Lalabas ang totoong marupok kapag sumumpa na magsasama habambuhay, pero yun pala ay sisirain din.

Bakit niya ito nasabi? Kasi pag sinabi mo siyang marupok, mahina siya. Saan siya mahina? Di niya kayang panindigan ang pangako na magsasama sila habambuhay.

Kasama kang tumanda

Bakit hindi gaya ng dati na matibay ang samahan ng mag-asawa? Bakit hindi natin magaya ang mga lolo’t lola natin – na pinanindigan ang “Kasama kang tumanda” at “Kahit maputi na ang buhok ko”?

Noong panahon ng mga lolo at lola natin – o kahit pa ng mga ninuno natin – hindi uso sa kanila ang katagang “Walang forever.” Mas naniniwala pa nga sila sa kasabihan na “Ang pag-aasawa ay hindi kanin na basta iluluwa pag napaso.” At mataas din ang moralidad noon.

Ngayon, uso na ang katagang “Walang forever.” Bakit? Kasabay ng pagiging “liberated” ng lipunan ay ang unti-unting paghina ng moralidad. Nakakarinig na tayo ng mga mag-asawa na naghihiwalay. At ang mas masama pa nito, kung ang rason ay dahil sa kabit o dahil hindi na mahal ang isa’t isa.

Why so fast?

Bakit ganoong kadaling manloko at makipaghiwalay? Dahil hindi nila nakikita ang tunay na halaga ng isang tao. Di nila namamalayan na tinitingnan ang mga syota-syota na iyan o ang pag-aasawa bilang isang libangan lamang.

Tanungin ninyo ang mga lolo at lola (o kahit mga magulang niyo), at sasabihin nila sa inyo kung gaano kahirap ang manligaw. Magsisibak sila ng kahoy, magbubuhat ng sako, o gagawa ng gawaing bahay para mapasagot ang babae. Kung minsan, susuyuin pa ang magiging biyenan pag masungit. Kaya binibigyang-halaga nila ang kanilang jowa (at ang kanilang mga asawa), dahil alam nila na hindi basta-basta ang mga pinagdaanan mapasagot lang siya.

Eh ngayon, text at chat na lang ang ginagamit sa panliligaw. Doon hindi makikita ng isang tao kung gaano kaimportante siya, di gaya noon. Doon hindi niya marerealize kung bakit hindi dapat basta tinetake for granted ang isang tao.

Iyan ang hindi naiintindihan ng boyfriend ni Sharmaine sa Love Advice No. 20. Malamang, basta-basta na rin ang panliligaw. Kaya hindi rin maintindihan ng boyfriend kung gaano kaimportante ang dalaga sa kanya. Di rin maapreciate ang worth ng babae. Basta nakaramdam na kailangang makipag-sex, kailangang ibigay.

Kung pagtitiisan ng dalaga ang ganyang ugali, alam na natin kung anong mangyayari. Pag nabuntis, itetake for granted siya ng lalaking iyon. Iiwanan siya. Madali lang lokohin at hiwalayan ang dalaga.

Test yourself

Malamang na nag-iisip ka rin na magkaroon ng asawa. Isa lamang ang tanong, “Sigurado ka ba diyan?”

Ang pag-aasawa, tulad ng panliligaw, ay pinag-iisipan ding mabuti. Hindi ito isang laro na puwede kang kumalas nang ganoon na lang. Commitment is the key.

Simple lang naman ang test na gagawin mo. Kung manliligaw ka, gawin mo na. Bahala ka na sa kung anong diskarte ang gagawin mo. Ngayon, kung magseseryoso ka, malaki ang tsansa na magkaroon ng “Forever” sa inyong dalawa. Kung happy-go-lucky ka, at nagloko ka, malaki naman ang tsansa na magbebreak kayo. Same principle applies pag naging kayo na.

Paano ang mga bata?

Isa pang tanong: Bakit ka mag-aasawa?

Kung hindi ka makapagbigay ng diretsong sagot sa tanong na iyan, isantabi mo muna ang pangarap na iyan. At kung gagawa ka lang ng pamilya, tapos sisirain mo lang, huwag na lang. Maawa naman tayo sa mga bata.

Sa pag-aasawa, bakit dapat isaalang-alang ang mga bata? Kasi sila ang unang maaapektuhan kapag hindi maganda ang relasyon ninyo. Tulad nga ng sinabi ng netizen kanina, mahihirapan ang mga bata na i-discuss ang family tree sa kahit sino. Magiging awkward sila pag pinag-uusapan na ang pamilya. Sila rin ang mahihirapan everytime na may “Family Day.” At sila rin ang mahihirapan dahil may kulang talaga sa kanilang pagkatao.

Salamat sa pagbabasa ng artikulong ito. Sensitibo ang pinag-uusapan dito, pero kailangang talakayin ito. Ito ay sampal sa reyalidad na dapat malaman ng lahat, upang tayong mga responsable ay kumilos upang maiwasan ang paghina ng moralidad sa lipunan.

Love Advice No. 94

Pag-usapan natin ang kasabihang ito:

Masakit ang katotohanang iyan. Pero ang ganitong pag-iisip ay hindi tinatalakay nang maigi sa maraming love programs sa bansa at sa discussion ng mga love DJs, kahit pa ni Papa Jack. So this time, atin itong suriin.

Paano mo nasabi?

Unang Tanong: Kailangan ba talagang tanggapin na di kayo para sa isa’t isa?

Dalawa ang sagot diyan: Oo at Hindi. May mga pagkakataon na kailangan nating tanggapin ito. May pagkakataon na hindi dapat. Bukod sa tadhana (na laging sinisisi), marami kasing factors na kontrolado o hindi, na kailangang ikonsidera bago natin sabihin na hindi kayo para sa isa’t isa. Iyan ang tatalakayin natin sa artikulong ito.

Ikalawang Tanong: Paano natin masasabi na tayo ba talaga o hindi sa isa’t isa? Sa totoo lang, hindi natin masasabi na siya na nga. Maaring sa ngayon ay siya na, pero posibleng mag-iba ang pagtingin sa kanya pag napasabak sa isang sitwasyon o nilamon ng sistema. Isa pa, walang perpekto sa atin.

Di talaga tayo

Ikatlong Tanong: Bakit kailangang tanggapin na di tayo sa isa’t isa?

Merong magandang dahilan kung bakit ito nangyayari:

  • Isyu ng moralidad. May mga pagkakataon kung saan di puwedeng maging “kayo”. Lalo na kung isa sa inyo (o pareho) ay pamilyado na. O kung bawal talaga sa patakaran (ng kompanya o organisasyon) na maging kayo.

Pinakamagandang halimbawa ang nangyari sa programang Halik. Nais mang ituloy nina Lino at Jackie ang relasyon, hindi nila ito magagawa kasi hindi sila para sa isa’t isa. Bakit? Pareho na silang kasal kina Jade at Ace.

  • May mga madadamay. Nakakarinig tayo ng mga bata o kamag-anak na maaring madamay kapag itinuloy ang pag-ibig. O mga bagay na nadadamay kapag iyon ang inuuna, tulad ng sustento at scholarships.
  • May mga masasaktan din. Lalo na kung ang isa sa inyo ay may asawa na o pamilyado na. O kung ang isa’y may existing bf/gf at matatamaan din sakaling itinuloy ang relasyon ninyong dalawa.

Manood din ng Halik. Nang pinilit nina Jade at Ace ang bawal na relasyon, nasaktan sina Jackie at Lino. Nasaktan din pati ang kanilang mga magulang.

Sa mga kasong ito, no choice na sila kundi maghiwalay talaga. Kasi may rason talaga para di sila maging sa isa’t isa.

May paraan pa

Huling Tanong: May paraan pa ba?

Magagawan iyan ng paraan! Kung wala namang seryosong hadlang sa relasyon ninyo, bakit natin tatanggapin na di kayo para sa isa’t isa?

Kung ito ay tungkol sa katuwiran na “bata pa kayong dalawa,” may paraan din para diyan. Habang bata pa, ito na ang pagkakataon na kilalanin ninyo ang isa’t isa. Kahit na this time, hindi kayo sa isa’t isa. Suspend muna ang relationship ninyo habang may kanya-kanya kayong career. But don’t forget to communicate with each other. Importante iyan.

Kung dumating sa punto na “long distance relationship” kayo, ibig sabihin ba nito di kayo para sa isa’t isa? Maling-mali. May paraan pa. Importante na mag-usap kayo palagi. Nasa iyo na kung gagawin mo iyon para di ka malungkot sa kanya. May mga kaso na inaabot ng ilang taon ang relasyon kahit na malayo sa isa’t isa. Pero going strong pa rin.

Kung sakaling ito ay dahil sa pagtutol ng magulang, nasa inyo na ang desisyon kung kayo ba ay para sa isa’t isa. Hindi pa rin iyan didiktahan ng tadhana. At lalong hindi nila masasabi na kayo ay di talo sa isa’t isa, kahit paghiwalayin kayo nang todo.

Sa totoo lang, may mga kaso na ipinaglaban nila ang relasyon nila kahit tutol ang magulang. May kaso din na hinintay muna ng dalawa na magkaroon ng magandang buhay bago i-resume ulit ang naudlot na relationship. Bandang huli, sila pa rin.

Dito pa lang, ginagawa nila ng paraan na maging sila pa rin hanggang ngayon.

Kung ito ay dahil “hindi kagustuhan ng Diyos,” maling-mali iyan. Alam naman natin na ang Diyos ay may kontrol sa maraming bagay. Pero binigyan din Niya tayo ng free will para makapagdesisyon (Santiago 1:13-14). Ang mas magandang gawin ay humingi ng tulong at gabay sa Kanya anuman ang mangyari sa inyong dalawa.

Most of the time, ito ay tungkol sa desisyon na huwag ituloy ang relasyon ninyong dalawa. Kung sakaling ayaw mo na, problema mo na iyon. Kung si bf o gf naman ang ayaw, problema na niya iyan. Wala na tayong magagawa.

Final Words

So, what’s the point? Love is also a matter of choice. Decision niyo na kung kayo ba talaga o hindi. Di dapat iniaasa sa kapalaran ang magiging status ninyo in the future. Kung magkaroon man ng role si Tadhana sa inyong dalawa, maliit na bagay iyon. Suwertehan na lang.

Isa pa, hindi natin masasabi na siya na nga talaga unless handa tayong umibig, sumugal, maghintay, masaktan, at magsakripisyo para sa kanya. Sabi nga ng isang netizen, kung mag-eeffort ka at ginagawa ninyo ang best niyo, talagang kayo ay para sa isa’t isa.

Gawin mo ang lahat ng best mo para maging kayo talaga. Kung talagang mahal mo siya, at mahal ka, at nasa katuwiran ka, ipaglaban mo siya.

Love also depends on how you view it. How you respond and how you find ways to make relationship stronger is up to us.

Salamat sa pagbabasa ng artikulong ito. Ang naturang kasabihan ay hindi madalas pinag-uusapan at pinagdedebatehan, pero kailangan pa rin itong talakayin. Dahil ito ay hindi applicable sa lahat. At kahit paano, maitama ang maling akala lalo na sa pag-ibig.

Love Advice No. 93

Ngayong Valentines Day, tunghayan natin ang isa pang serye ng love problem na bibigyan natin ng payo at solusyon.

Dahil ang originating post na ito ay mukhang na-delete na, aangkinin na ng may-akda ang naturang post. Narito ang kanyang mala-MMK na kuwento:

You must read.

Ako si Althea. Alam kong pag nabasa ng mga kababaihan ito, maiinis at magagalit sila sa akin. Pero alam kong may babae ding iintindi sa akin.

When I was in second year high school, may kaklase ako na ang pangalan niya ay “Chris”. Until fourth year high school ay kaklase ko pa din siya. Second year high school pa lang kami, niligawan niya ako. Hindi ko siya sinagot. After nang binasted ko siya, hindi kami nag-usap. Naging bitter siya. But after how many weeks, nagkaayos na kami.

Nung nag-third year naman kami, niligawan niya ulit ako pero basted na naman siya kasi nang mga pagkakataong iyon, meron akong boyfriend. So, sinabe ko sa kanya na best friend na lang kami. Para walang break-up. Pumayag siya.

Naging maayos at masaya ang friendship namin. Hanggang minsan, nasa bahay nila ako at ganun din siya sa akin. Para nga kaming couple noon. Parehas kaming committed na, pero ang boyfriend ko at girlfriend niya ay hindi legal sa parents namin kasi gusto ako ng parents ni Chris for him at ganun din ang parents ko.

Hanggang nag-fourth year na kami. Going strong pa din ang friendship namin. Naalala ko pa nang nasagasaan siya dahil niligtas niya ang aso na masasagasaan na. Mahilig sa hayop si Chris. Hindi siya nakalakad nang pinaoperahan siya. Sobrang nag-alala ako nang mga oras na iyon. Binibisita ko siya sa bahay nila, at every time na dinadalaw ko siya, thankful siya doon. Kasi nararamdaman daw niyang mahalaga siya sa akin. After two months, nakarecover na siya.

Hindi ko akalain na after niya palang gumaling, may balak silang pumuntang States with his family para doon mag-aral si Chris. Halos natakluban ako ng isandaang hollow blocks nun. :)))) Sa iba ko pa nalaman iyon. Kaya sobrang nagalit ako. Nag-sorry siya. Ipinaliwanag niya na ayaw niya daw malaman ko iyon. Ayaw niya daw makita akong umiyak, kasi nga, pati siya, hindi niya kayang mahiwalay sa akin.

Hanggang sa makaalis siya, hindi ko siya kinausap. Pumunta siya ng bahay. Kinabukasan ang alis niya.

Pero pinasabi ko na nagbakasyon ako. Sobrang sakit. Hagulgol ang iyak ko noon. Hindi ko man lang siya nayakap at nasabing MAHAL KO SIYA. MAHAL NA MAHAL!

After two months, nagkaayos kami. Nag-uusap kami through chat and Skype.

First year college na ako. Sobrang saya. Then noong August, sinurprised ako ni Chris. Sinundo niya ako dahil nakabalik na pala siya. Nang nakita ko siya, para akong nakakita ng artista sa sobrang guwapo niya. XD Ang daming tumitingin sa amin noon. May dala siyang flowers and chocolate. Pati isang plastic na Milo. Biro mo, naalala niya pa na favorite kong papakin iyon.

After one week, niligawan na naman niya ako. Pumayag na ako kasi wala na din kami ng boyfriend ko.

Sinorpresa na naman niya ako. May ipapakita daw siyang project sa bahay nila. At hayun, nakita ko sa kwarto: madilim. Pagbukas ng ilaw, nakita ko ang mga kaibigan namin noong fourth year. Madaming nakasabit na heart sa taas ng dingding.

May nakasabit, tapos may nakadikit sa wall nila, “I LOVE YOU, ALTHEA” with teddy bear. May Christmas light pa that time. With sounds 🙂 Then lumuhod siya. Then he asked me, “Althea, can I court you?” Kinilig ako doon. ❤ Pangarap kong effortan nang ganoon. Dream come true. So agad Yes ako. Harot, di ba? XD Niyakap niya ako after niyang marinig ang Yes ko.

After ng time na iyon, lagi na niya akong sinusundo. Two hours ang biyahe from his school bago siya makarating sa beloved alma matter ko (School ko). Every time susunduin niya ako, meron akong bulaklak. So sweet. HAHA.

Two months pa lang siyang nanliligaw, pero nagkakalabuan na kami. Ewan ko ba. 😦 Naging hot-tempered ako at super moody. :3 At hayun, tinigilan niya na ako. Sino ba namang di titigil? Tinataboy ko na, inaaway ko na, pinahihiya ko pa. 😦

Blinock niya ako. At after one month, inunblock niya ako. Pero hindi niya ako inadd. After two months, nalaman kong may girlfriend na siya. -_- So bilis! Masaya na sila at naka-move on na din ako. Kaya girls, “Matutong magpahalaga kung ayaw mo makita syang may kasamang iba”.

My Answer:

Kahit kung tutuusin ay may na-realize ka na, bibigyan pa rin kita ng love advice. Dahil merong mga bagay na dapat mong matutunan sa sitwasyong ito:

Una sa lahat, hindi ka pa rin natuto. Saka mo pa lang na-feel ang worth ni Chris nang una siyang umalis pa-Amerika.

The second time around, binigyan ka ng second chance. Kaya lang, naging moody ka. Nang iniwan ka ulit ni Chris, na-feel mo ang worth niya (na naman!) kung kailan wala na siya sa tabi mo. Sa madaling salita, lagi mong tine-take for granted ang pagmamahal niya sa iyo.

Isa pang bagay: Sa sobrang gwapo ni Chris, bakit mo susungitan? Isipin mo rin na sa guwapo niyang ito, pinagnanasahan siya ng maraming babae. Kung tutuusin ay hindi na niya kailangang mag-effort pa. Pakunsuwelo na lang ito sa kanya sa lahat ng panliligaw niya sa iyo. Sa lahat ng hirap na pinagdaanan niya para mapasagot mo siya. Pero bakit ikaw pa rin ang pinili ni Chris kahit ka ganyang kasungit? Ikaw ang makakasagot niyan.

Lack of understanding

Kulang ka sa effort at pang-unawa. Nag-effort ka ba para sa kanya? Sobra-sobra ang ginawa ni Chris kung tutuusin. Ikaw naman, kabig ka nang kabig, pero wala ka namang binibigay.

Iniintindi niya kung ano ang feelings mo, pero naiintindihan mo ba siya? Sa paglabo ng inyong relasyon, naiintindihan mo ba na ang pagiging emotera mo ang dahilan ng break-up niyo? Nung dumaan kayo sa sitwasyong ito, gumawa ka ba ng paraan para magkaayos kayo? Nag-sorry ka ba sa kanya? Parang hindi eh. Hinayaan mo lang na umabot siya sa punto na iwan ka.

Tingin ko, inalalayan si Chris ng kanyang naging girlfriend sa panahong nasasaktan siya sa iyo. Iyon ang reason kung bakit sila na kaagad. Alam naman niya kasi na may babae na pupuno sa naging pagkukulang mo.

Missed opportunity

Kung tutuusin, masakit ang katotohanan na ang “effort” ay thru chat at text na lang. Bibihira ang mga lalaki na handang mag-effort para sa dalaga. Kapag ganoon ang nangyari, di mo makikita kung seryoso ba talaga siya sa iyo.

Bibihira na nga ang mga ganyang lalaki, tinataboy mo na, pinapakawalan mo pa. Ngayon, saan ka pa makakakita ng ganyang klaseng lalaki? Ikaw na ang sasagot niyan.

Di puro emosyon lang

Hindi ko alam kung ano ang talagang dahilan ng paglabo ninyong dalawa. Baka dito ko mabigyan ng katuwiran iyang pagiging emotera mo.

Maiintindihan ko pa ang pagiging emotera mo kung si Chris ay robot. Kahit bulyawan mo ang robot ay di siya masasaktan. At di ka iiwanan. Pero tao din siya. May damdamin iyon eh. Nasasaktan din siya.

Sa susunod, hinay-hinay lang din sa pag-emote. Dito ka kasi nawawala sa huwisyo at di ka makapagdesisyon nang tama. Kung nagkakaroon ka na, at may mood swings ka, puwede ka namang makiusap na huwag kang abalahin. O magpa-alalay sa kanya. Maiintindihan naman niya ang iyong sitwasyon.

What if…

Ngayon, mapapaisip ka: “What if siya ang naging boyfriend ko?”

Kung ako ang magiging girlfriend niya, pipigilan ko ang emotions ko. Kung hindi man, magsosori ako sa kanya. Dahil paiba-iba din naman ang mood ko, nawawala ako sa huwisyo at hindi maayos ang pakikitungo ko sa kanya. Kailangan ko itong gawin dahil ako naman talaga ang mali dito.

Kung ako ang magiging girlfriend niya, tutumbasan ko ang effort niya para sa akin. Hindi ako yung tipong kabig lang nang kabig sa relationship namin. Dahil pag wala siyang natatanggap miski isa galing sa akin, posibleng iwanan din niya ako.

Final Words

Masakit para kay Chris na ginaganyan mo siya. Masakit iyon dahil bad habit mo ang isinukli mo sa kanya. Pakiramdam niya, para bang hindi mo na siya mahal. Na kahit anong effort ang gawin niya, useless din. Na kahit na magpa-blow out ang lalaki para lang sa iyo, wala din. Na kahit anong bigay ng flowers niya sa iyo, wala din. Kung ganyan ang trato mo sa kanya, paano pa kaya kung mag-asawa na kayo?

Nakakadegrade para sa kanya ang palagi mong panghihiya sa kanya. Tinapakan mo ang ego niya at ang dignidad niya. Kailangan din niyang mahalin ang sarili niya. After all, binigay niya ang lahat sa iyo, di ba?

Wag mo nang uulitin iyon. Walang forever na dadating sa iyo pag di mo kinontrol ang emosyon mo. At lalong walang forever sa iyo kung di ka marunong magpahalaga kahit kaunti.

Malinaw na ikaw ang responsable sa sakit na nararamdaman mo ngayon. Hanapin mo na ang pag-ibig kung gusto mong magmahal muli. Hindi iyan darating sa iyo kung hindi mo pipigilan ang emosyon mo. This time, matuto ka na maging responsable sa pag-handle ng relationship.