Love Advice No. 109 (IZ*ONE’s Chaewon)

For the first time, we will give love advice to a K-Pop star, this time IZ*ONE’s Kim Chaewon. While earlier, we reviewed the group, this time we’ll review their member to help them improve their personality. Let’s start!


From KPopMap:

Q: Do you dislike fat people?
Chaewon: Who doesn’t?

Q: What kind of guys do you like?
C: Don’t really have a preference. Lol as long as they’re not short.

Q: What kid of visuals in a guy do you like?
C: Handsome.

My Answer:

Take note that the word used is like (좋아). There’s no problem if we talk about liking him. This is more on having crushes. You can say that you like a handsome man at this point (say, Park Bo Gum), then forget it later. But if we go on loving him, Chaewon has a problem if that’s the case.

Honestly, my answer to these questions will be the same. Anyway, we have our own set of preferences, and we cannot deny that.

To add, this convo was taken at the time they are too young for relationships, or even marry. Therefore, this needs to be viewed in the context of teenager’s feelings.

Pointers

While this should not be a big deal for us, some points have to keep in mind.

One thing that should be kept in mind is this: Our preferences change as we age. We realize some points, we ponder on it, and therefore make us a better, mature person than yesterday. This makes us wiser when deciding on the ideal partner.

Another thing: There are some instances where we don’t like him/her at first (due to physique) but we later on love that guy. That includes me, who loved a not-so-good looking girl. For Chaewon to better understand my situation, here’s the description:

A guy who is tall and medium built, but has braces and wears glasses. He’s not the type of man you want to be with, as he is shy. His talking is also a bit off, especially if you treat him sarcastically.

Would Chaewon at that time like him? Definitely no. But spend time with him. Know him more, and she’ll later on fall in love with him unconsciously.

So, it’s very important to know the guy better first. Looks will fade, but personality remains. That’s the reality we will eventually face.


Photo Image Credit: From one of fanpages of IZ*ONE.

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